Have you tried affirmations? But give up after a day or so because you feel silly?
Say you’re trying to attract a lover and you repeat over and over, “I’m a beautiful, confident and sexy, people are naturally drawn to me, I’m full of positive energy, and people notice me when I walk into the room.”
All the while you can’t help but think, “Yeah right, no one has looked at me in over ten years, I’m 2 stone overweight, my boobs are migrating south, and I need significant hair removal!”
All an exaggeration of course, but that’s how you feel.
So your affirmations are taking you nowhere. They make you feel worse because your thoughts are automatically tuned in to contradict your statements. And you’re trying to convince yourself of something that seems so far removed from your current circumstances.
Try afformations for sexiness instead. Continue reading “Affirmations for sexiness – why am I so sexy?”